Sunday, 31 August 2014

He Is the Boy My Heart Will Never Get Over

He Is the Boy My Heart Will Never Get Over 


I remember him because he is always there, distant but never completely gone. I keep him in the smell of my clothes, between the pages of my books. I sometimes like to open the pages and find him again, like a vivid memory that’s aged like a fine wine, I see him. I close my eyes and breathe him in. I move my head back, tilt it to the side and recall how it felt when his head rested there.
I read old notes, proof that same love lived within us both at one time. I smile at the memory of the way he would blink at me across the room, in order to make me feel better for not being able to wink. Saved in the folds of my mind is the image of my favorite person, the one that sits in the corner of my eye and deep in my heart. I jump, and remember the feeling of his arms locking tightly around me ensuring  I’d never fall.
I see the visions of a life with him, of travels and triumphs. I can taste the happiness, just as I can taste the sweetness he had while he was with me. I laugh at the inside jokes, the funny faces, the games, the dance moves, and the effortless of it all. I cry when I relive the time we had spent, how proud I am, of all he has done and will do.
I am thankful for how strong he’s made me, how vulnerable he convinced me to become. I look in the mirror and notice just how lovely he’s made me, the confidant woman I've grown to be. I can stand on my own two feet; I am unafraid to publish words that before riddled the insides in my thoughts. I have courage because he’s made me brave, his voices echoes in my ears the encouragement I always needed.
He’s freed me. He is the boy I've built up for so long. He is the one who taught me to love,carried me home when I was tired, and put a blanket over me as I slept. He is the one who moreover everything taught me to stand up and speak the truth, made me learn the burden of guilt can be shared, made me face the people with my imperfection and have heart to learn from my mistakes. He is the one who you’d cross oceans for, the one who had me convinced I could settle down — even if in the far future. He is the boy I love, in the most beautiful form of the word.
He is the boy I walked away from, because between “for always” and “forever” I spouted wings that yearned to fly. He is the one I’ll never forgive myself for hurting, the one I save in my heart. He crosses my mind each day, and it simultaneously brings me joy and a pain. He is the boy my own heart will never get over.



That's Him !!!! My Heart, My Mind, My soul will never ever let go of !!!!! 

Sunday, 17 August 2014

Risk Is New Safe !!!!!


 


E-Commerce/Network Marketing - Basics to be known 



Facing Down Fear of Rejection in E-Commerce. 

You’re afraid to call.  You’re afraid to bring it up in person.  You’re afraid to approach those really powerful prospects on your candidate list. 
Nothing to fear
Why ?
Because they might reject you.  BOOM!
So what?
I mean really.  So what?  Here’s the most fascinating thing about rejection in network marketing:  If you’re not getting some rejection, you’re not really doing your job.
Here’s why:  Our business is perfect for everybody.  But everybody is not perfect for our business.  Not everyone is willing to do the work, or willing to give up watching five hours of television nightly.
If someone tells me they've never been rejected and that every single person they've talked to has joined their business, it reveals something important.
If you are, then you should be getting some rejection.  Now if you’re getting too much – let’s say you approach ten people and all ten reject you – then you need to work on your skills.  Talk to your Up line and do some role playing.   Don’t stop or give up just because you face some rejection.  That simply means you’re in the game, doing something at a high level.
The greater your fear is of something, the more important it is for you to do it.

No Charge Excuses in E-Commerce. 

It’s that time of year again.  People are reflecting on their lack of progress, the goals they didn’t meet, and looking for why it wasn’t their own fault. 
The products are too expensive.  This is always a good choice, popular with most people who don’t succeed in network marketing.  It never occurs to them that the top earners in their company sell products at the same prices, so why should you worry about it?
I live in a small town.  Another old standby that works great.  You can use this excuse with confidence, because most people don’t realize that some of the most successful people in our business hail from small towns and villages.
People are too conservative where I live.  Don’t use this one if there are other successful people in your area or it doesn’t work.  Only use it if all the successful people in network marketing live outside your area.
I don’t know that many people.  This is always a solid excuse to use, because no one is going to question it.  Even though you probably had hundreds of people at your wedding, went to school with hundreds more, have lived next to dozens and dozens over the years, have hundreds of connections on social media etc. – most of those people don’t know each other, so your secret is safe with me.

How to Work Your Business

Show me a new person in E-Commerce who pledges to work their new business like a business, and I’ll show you someone that will crack like a walnut. 
Why?
Because when people go into business for themselves, they think there’s something mystical about it.  They think they can only do it after they do the right amount of preparing, training, getting their mind right, and all the conditions are go.
So when they feel a cold coming on, the mother-in-law comes to visit, or the holiday season hits – they check out.  All the conditions aren’t conducive to working the business perfectly.  So they don’t work it.
Now take the way they approach their job…
They still show up when they have the sniffles, monster-in-law comes to town, or the electronics store is offering 40 percent off.  They show up to their job because they have to show up to it.  They have to show up or they don’t get paid.
Want to have a great business?  Don’t work it like a business.  Work it like your job!

It May Not Be Sexy in E-Commerce 

Dare I say it? 
It may not be sexy to talk about the core, fundamental strategies for growing a Network Marketing organization today.
I get that…
Everyone wants to sell you lead generation systems, downline building services, or tell you that you can sit home in your bunny slippers doing social media posts.  If you believe that, you can stop reading now.
Since you’re still here, let me tell you what’s actually sexy.  Duplication is sexy. Helping new people break ranks is sexy.  Actually making money is sexy.  So let this note just serve as a reminder…
  • It’s not what works – it’s what duplicates
  • It doesn’t matter if you make fast money – if your people aren’t making money, your income is going to dry up.
  • Building a large successful market is not easy; it’s not supposed to be.
  • But building a large network that achieves steady growth is simple.  It’s done by leading a large group of people, to follow some simple actions over a sustained period of time.

What Is Full-Time in E-Commerce ?


The great thing about Network Marketing is that it is meant to be started part-time, with whatever business or job you currently have.  That’s the good news…
Here’s the bad news.  Or the really great news, depending on how you see it…
You can work part-time, but your passion has to be full-time.  Keep your passion at that level, and your part-time work will soon produce a better than full-time income.
And that’s what makes Network Marketing special.

Changing Your Results in E-Commerce. 

Maybe you don’t earn as much as you would like in your bonus check.   Maybe your group isn’t as big as you hoped it would be.  Maybe things just haven’t worked out the way you hoped when you first filled out that application form. 
Welcome to the club.  You’ve got lots of company.
No one can go back in time and create a new beginning.  But anyone can start right this moment and create a new ending!

The Multi-Level Mindset in E-Commerce.

Across Network Marketing, you will find a lot of diversity.  Skin care companies, cosmetics, diet programs, nutrition and wellness.Yet you also find striking similarities in the ultra-successful people in all these companies.

We’re talking about mindset…
Because there are ways of thinking that transcend product lines, comp plans and other variables.  These are the common traits, which are the prerequisites for long-term success in the business, and you find them in all top leaders across the profession.  Let’s look at them
Everyone in this group is a worker. They don’t look for the free lunches and get-rich schemes. Far from running away from work, they wake up, throw the sheets off the bed, and actually look forward to work! Being a network marketing professional means welcoming challenge, growth, and adventure and helping others while helping oneself. So they love what they do, and don’t need a weekend, a six-pack. They have discovered how to balance work and life and bring meaning to both.
Everyone in this group is a good teacher. They recognize that real duplication comes from their possessing good teaching skills much more than selling skills. They follow a formula that allows large numbers of people to replicate their actions.
Everyone is this group is also a student. They have a passion for lifelong learning and set aside daily time for quiet reflection and self-development. It’s important that you continually sharpen your saw. 

What matters is that you dedicate yourself to always being a little better today than you were yesterday.

Friday, 8 August 2014

God won’t give you more than you can handle.


Lately my time has been the difficult then I have ever gone through. It has been filled with illness,me suffering the consequence of sin, a part of me reeling in confusion and pain and me experiencing the emotional roller-coaster. 


Needless to say, I have had enough. But I can Handle much more, I am strong and I am HIS child and He never will let me fall and fail. 

I know I am not alone. I know some people who have dealt with far more for far longer.  But that doesn’t change the fact that my problems are less painful to me.  In the face of all this, I can honestly feel I have become a “pastor” and have the answer for this.  My questions before God about the reality of what I have experienced over a period are the exact same questions anyone would ask.
Why?
Why not step in?
Why not act?
Why wouldn’t you make it right?
Why couldn’t you part the clouds and provide a moment for me to catch my breath?
Why everything at once?
Why?
Not only am I okay asking those questions, but I think there is something holy and sacred in being courageous enough to ask them.  Don’t be fooled, those questions are only to be asked by the courageous.  But insipid axioms do little in the face of the actual brokenness of the world.  It is more courageous to ask the hard questions of God and wait for him to answer than it is to find hope on the side of coffee mug.  Asking those questions requires courage because, in the end, it is very likely they will not be answered right then and there. Now with the courage I have learned being patient. Cause for I have faith the questions will be answered but i have to wait. 
Ultimately, it isn’t about the questions.  Behind the questions is a deep current of emotion threatening to overtake me.  But too often, when the fracture in the universe threatens to swallow us up in pain I fail to get fully present to my emotions.  In those moments I think I do one of two things.  Either I ask the questions but never investigate what emotion is driving those questions, or I resort to some meaningful slogan to try and make me feel better.
This experience forced me to look at one such statement that gets spouted often when people go through a lot:  God won’t give you more than you can handle.  i sometimes thought of not trusting this lines but yet I am living and I am breathing for life that has proved it to be right cause somewhere inside I am fighting it. Now those lines have made me learn to have faith and hope. It has made me stronger and braver then I was. I am fighter and I won't quite as He has chosen me with this struggle for he knew I have the strength to find my way out. 
Now that I have said how I feel,  I want to link this statement to another. This particular statement, that “God won’t give you more than you can handle,” is a statement that sounds like “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to humankind.  And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear.”  You won’t be tempted beyond what you can stand up against. I only feel that if I want it so bad I will have hardship to get that cause fulling my dreams don't come up easily. I will face problems and He will guard me help me and take me to what I want. I have learned to know that problems are created by me, whether big or small and I have now developed a lot of understanding of not blaming Him or anyone else for what I am going through.
Don’t hear me saying I am rejoicing.  I am not.  Not once have I danced around our house shouting, “Yeah suffering!”  Instead, in the midst of pain and hurt, I am actively expecting a lot out of myself and God to help me do something different to get thorough it.  I don’t know what.  I don’t know when.  But I am expecting  my soul to heal me.  I am expecting  myself to restore me.  I am expecting myself to redeem this situation. I believe expectant waiting can only happen when we exchange our feeble platitudes for an authentic faith that engages God with the full brunt of our emotion and pain.  Only then can salvation been seen.
But that exchange takes courage.
I have the courage 
I have the will 
I have the faith 
I have the time 
I have the dream 
I have what it takes from me to be through this and achieve what I want. 


I can fight the pain 

I can fight temptations 
I can fight bad vibes 
I can fight hatred with love 
I can fight lies with truth 
I can fight can't with can 
I can fight for whatever it takes to be there where I want to be.


I am strong
I am fearless 
I am happy 
I am blessed 
I am wise 
I am grown in times with wisdom 
I am free 
I am Human 


Small Poem : " I choose to love you in silence ... For in silence i find no rejection, 
                           I choose to love you in loneliness .... For in loneliness no one owns you but me. 
                           I Choose to adore you from a distance.... For distance will shield me from pain, 
                           I choose to kiss you in the wind .... For the wind is gentler than my lips,
                           I choose to hold you in dreams ..... For in my dreams, you have no End..... 
                           I choose to be with you ..... For I believe in miracles " ......